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Elena 5x04: This is where we collided.
Elena 8x16: Smiles remembering exactly Stefan’s first words to her.
Elena tending Stefan’s wound (2x01)
Pro-Stelena meta: you can be friends and in love with
- English isn’t my first language. You’ve been warned. -
Stefan simply says he THINKS you can’t be both in 5x18, except he’s just trying to be a good brother and help d*lena, because the truth is: he called Elena as his friend in 4x14: yet he kissed Elena’s hair in 4x15, was clearly attracted to her in 4x16, said he can’t shake her in 4x19 and called her as the love of his life in 4x23.
He dreamed about Elena, probably everyday to not turn off his humanity in 5x01 and 5x02. He was falling in love with her all over again without memories in 5x04. Katherine says “I think you’re still in love with Elena” in 5x09 and later Stefan replied she was right, but he feels like he needs to move on and he failed, because Katherine realized in one night, an eternity, Stefan would never look at her, the way he looks at Elena in 5x10. He kissed Katherine in Elena’s body in 5x14 and he only stopped the kiss because he thinks is wrong for Damon. Stefan is selfless, but he was still heartbroken when he watched the d*lena kiss in 5x21.
Stefan called Elena as his friend again in 6x08 and he says “nothing more” (deleted scene/ biggest lie to himself) for Damon. He says how he was in love with Elena and because of that, he wanted her to know everything. What is interesting, is that he’s still telling her everything. There’s a deleted stelena scene of 6x04 when Stefan says he’s sorry for telling her what Alaric did to her, because she was not supposed to know and Elena asks “So why you did?” and that’s because Stefan still is in love with Elena, but he’s trying to move on.
Stefan! Cooper proposing to Elena! Williams called her as his “best friend” so of course you CAN be friends and in love with someone. That’s healthy. The same way Stefan can call Caroline as his friend and kiss her…
And then Stefan with humanity off says “Take it from me, Elena Gilbert never really goes away” and that’s just prove my point. Stefan died loving Elena, not in a platonic way. Stefan hides his feelings, like a decent person, because the girl he’s in love with isn’t single. That’s why Cade had to say for him, “i can see why you both love her” while Stefan is staring at Elena’s coffin.
Paul Wesley about Stefan’s feelings for Elena in season 5:
“I think there is ALWAYS going to be that residual i’m in love with you but i think he respects her as friend” https://youtu.be/AqyK22O5gJk
So Stefan will love Caroline forever, but he will love Elena FOREVER and ALWAYS too.
“I love you. I will ALWAYS love you” (3x18)
“I will ALWAYS love her” (4x05)
“I will ALWAYS love you Elena” (5x18)
“I have ALWAYS loved you” (6x04)
Now i’ll talk about Elena’s feelings. Elena also called Stefan her friend in 4x14, yet she was putting her leg on his shoulder in 4x16, she tells him “you look good, i remember our sex and it was good sex” plus she told him “i’ve turned it all off, including my feelings for you” that means she has feelings for him. She was jealous of him in the same episode. 4x19 she tells Rebekah “you RUINED my relationship with Stefan”, she tells Damon “you know what else blew? being sired to you…” while Stefan is listening. 4x23 she gave what Stefan always wanted= the cure.
In 5x02 Elena says “Stefan’s been… he’s been suffering for months while i’ve been rolling around with you a self-proclaimed serial killer” she called having sex with Damon as “rolling around”
In 5x03 Elena runs to Stefan without even noticing Damon. In the same episode, Katherine tells Elena “deep down you know that he was your one true love and breaking up with him was a big mistake” she was right.
In 5x04, Elena touched Stefan’s chest and that scene CLEARLY shows she’s attracted to her friend.
In 5x06, Elena was jealous of Stefan and Tessa. Canon. Tessa to Damon about Elena “I used the oldest trick in the book jealousy of Stefan! Thought you should know”
In 5x11, Elena was ready to give up on Damon and she was jealous of Stefan with Katherine. Stefan trying to help Damon makes him not available and Elena saw that when he said “Just remember that you never gave up on me” PS: Elena stares at Stefan’s lips in THIS moment.
So Elena finally reveals what she’s been trying to hide. “I will ALWAYS love you too” (5x18).
Elena asking Stefan if she thinks her and Damon will be able to talk like this, that’s her asking Stefan if he thinks her relationship with Damon can be healthy as her relationship with Stefan. Stefan being subtle replies no.
She knows you can be friends and in love with someone, that’s why she didn’t reply Stefan’s tentative to help Damon. She knows her relationship with Damon is toxic, because she says it in 5x21:
“If that’s not a sign that we’re in a toxic relationship…”
just like Nina Dobrev said Delena is toxic:
https://youtu.be/p3i0EDZ2UQw
She pretends to marry Stefan in 6x04 and she never did this with Matt or Tyler.
She smiled when Stefan said he came back to Mystic Falls for her and she smiled again when Stefan said he was in love with her. She kissed Liam, because Stefan made sure he wasn’t available when he tried to help Damon. Plus, Stefan had a dead girlfriend Ivy. Elena telling Damon Stefan’s doppelganger is hot is Elena admitting she has feelings for Stefan but trying to be subtle… And then she tells Damon that Lily gave birth to her TWO epic loves in 6x17, that means Stefan still is Elena’s epic love IN 6x17. She flirts with Stefan in 6x21 and she tells him “i love you SO much” in 6x22 just like she said “i love you so much” in 2x06 and 4x06. She tells Stefan he knows her better than anyone in 5x07 and 6x22. Elena can love Damon forever, but she will love Stefan FOREVER and ALWAYS too.
Julie Plec about 8x16: “It was very important that we get to have a beautiful final emotionally romantic moment — not romance in the way that you understand it, but an emotionally romantic moment — between Stefan and Elena. And a goodbye that did them service as a couple that we had loved so much.”
Not romance in the way that you understand it= with kiss, etc.
But still an emotionally ROMANTIC moment between Stefan and Elena. Contrary to popular belief, you can be in love with two people at the same time and settle for someone, because the circumstances are fucked up.
Elena and Stefan are the love of each other’s lives, true love and soulmates. Circumstances didn’t allow them to end up together. The fact that Kevin and Julie implied Stefan and Elena were going to be endgame if Nina didn’t left proves that. Anyways, Stelena got the best non-endgame. “NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, it’s the best choice i’ve ever made” and she owes her life to Stefan. It was good to see Elena, one last time and he couldn’t think for a better reason to die if it wasn’t for her.
Stelena parallels: Elena in a relationship with Stefan x not in a relationship with Stefan (gifs aren’t mine)
gifs from
http://stefan-always-in-my-heart.tumblr.com
http://hellyeahstelena.tumblr.com/
and others i found here
http://stelenagifs.tumblr.com/
http://givemelovelikestelena.tumblr.com/post/70942805842/slayere-deactivated20160507-stelena-elenas
brooke-b23 asked:
i think this happens because i make posts and i tag with stelena / anti-delena
I know what i want vs I don’t know.
Julie Plec about Elena and Damon in 3x22: “It was just that slight little thing that she said to him, when she was just trying to take the sting off: “Hey, maybe if you and I had met first.” She was just trying to soften the blow.” http://screenertv.com/news-features/the-vampire-diaries-season-4-elenas-vampire-side-may-see-damon-in-a-new-light-as-the-love-triangle-d/
Elena was trying to soften the blow with Damon when she said she can’t think about always too.

stelena + hands
Stelena is beautiful, sad and tragic.
Stefan thought he did what he had to do “I did what i had to do”
and Elena replied “NO, Stefan” because he shouldn’t have killed himself, but he did to save everyone, because he’s selfless.
Me watching The Vampire Diaries
